Living Happy & Healthy 365

Goodbye cruel world.....

2010-08-11T01:24:00.000-07:00

I'm off to frickin MAZATLAN!! Spur of the moment trip leaving at 3am and gone for 7 days!!

I doubt I'll be on the internet much while I'm gone. Maybe once to check in with family etc...

I will catch up with all of you lovelies when I return.....relaxed, restored, and revived!!

Chili Chicken and Basil

2010-08-10T08:23:00.000-07:00

1 lb boneless, skinless chicken breasts
2 Thai bird chilies or serrano chilies
1 tsp soy sauce
2 cups loosely packed fresh basil
1 tbsp fish sauce
3 cloves garlic
1/2 tbsp peanut oil or canola oil
1/2 tbsp red-chili paste
1 tsp sugar
1 tsp fresh cracked pepper

1. Finely chop the garlic and chilies, then use the side of your knife to press them together into a rough paste. (Add a pinch of salt to make this process easier.)
2. Preheat a wok or stainless-steel saute pan over medium-high heat. Add the oil and the garlic-chili paste you just made, and cook for 2 to 3 minutes (be careful not to burn the garlic). Chop the chicken into small pieces and add them to the pan, cooking until they're lightly browned, about 3 to 4 minutes. Add the soy sauce, fish sauce, red-chili paste, and sugar, and continue to cook until the chicken is done all the way through, another 3 to 4 minutes.
3. Add the pepper and basil, and cook until the basil is just wilted, about 2 minutes. Serve immediately.

Weekly Outfits 8/2/10 thru 8/8/10

2010-08-09T09:23:00.000-07:00

Here are last week's outfits in review

8/2/10 Carl Striped Romper by Oonagh by Nanette Lepore

8/3/10 Victorie Abstract-Print Dress by Winter Kate

8/4/10 Pleated-Skirt Jersey Dress by Zac Posen

8/5/10 Banded Twill Dress by Marc by Marc Jacobs

Birthday Dress 8/6/10 Wrap Dress with Halter Neck by Gucci

8/7/10 Leaf-Print Dress by Andrew Gn

8/8/10 Ruched-Waist Crepe Dress by Stella McCartney

Toss Old Lipgloss

2010-08-08T07:57:00.000-07:00

Do you remember how long all of those tubes of lip glosses you own have been around? Well, you might want to. Every time you let air into a lip gloss tube and double-dip the wand (contaminating the formula with saliva), you create an environment in which bacteria can thrive. Toxicologist Joe DiNardo suggests tossing gloss after six months (when preservatives have likely degraded). You could date every tube with a Sharpie, or consider Cargo's new glosses, which have an indicator strip that turns red nine months after it has been opened. It's an easy way to know when your gloss could be giving you more than a dose of shine.

Thanks for the love!!

2010-08-07T05:55:00.000-07:00

Look at me.....Two awards at once.......how cool is that.

The lovely Emmy7921 has bestowed these two awards upon me.

You can imagine how excited I was.

(If you've been with me for any amount of time, you know that I love me an award!!!)

Please go visit Emmy's blog. She has the most wonderful make-up how-to's and reviews, along with a lot of other stuff that you definitely don't want to miss out on. Go check her out now.

Now, for the wonderful bloggers that I would like to bestow these upon.

The Sunshine Award goes to...

...Sour Tang
A Foreign Land
A girl needs 2 Talk
Cafe Bellini
Stephylicious

I love your blog award goes to....

Bella Gets Real
Closet Fashionista
style'n
Holiday Haven
express-o

I truly do love these blogs. I read them all the time and you should too. Click on them and check them out if you don't already.

Make the most of moisturizer

2010-08-06T06:59:00.000-07:00

Today is my birthday!! Woohoo....Yes, my husband and I have a birthday one day apart. So, as I get older, I obsess about my skin and am constantly reading about it.

Here's one thing I bet you didn't know about moisturizers: They protect skin against free-radical damage. Dehydration leads to oxidative stress, which generates free radicals. Without moisture, your skin isn't able to repair itself and suffers even more damage. You just have to use the right product. Cholesterol, ceramides, essential fatty acids, and niacinamide are among the best ingredients-they improve skin's protective moisture barrier. Try CeraVe Moisturizing Lotion or Olay Regenerist Micro-Sculpting Cream.

A toast ......

2010-08-05T06:17:00.000-07:00

.....to my husband's 35th birthday!! Here is the cake my daughter made him!

And here is a sample of how messy she got making it....

And then, how happy was I when I opened this box

and inside were these absolutely beautiful champagne flutes that I won from Melanie's Randomness.

Thank you, I will enjoy them very much!!!

Are you eating enough fruit?

2010-08-04T05:24:00.000-07:00

In praise of nature's candy, come summer, I try to pop blueberries and raspberries instead of M&M's. But studies show that 70 percent of women don't get the recommended two servings of fruit a day. Some shun the sweeter side of produce because they think it's fattening; others believe they're covered nutritionally if they double up on veggies. My response: You're doing your health - and waistline - a disservice. Here are three good reasons to rediscover fruit.

It's Chock-Full of Nutrients. Yes, fruit contains natural sugar, but it's balanced by vitamins, minerals, and antioxidants. Broaden your spectrum and your body will benefit even more: Researchers from Colorado State University found that women who ate a wide variety of produce for two weeks had less oxidation in their cells (a marker for premature aging and disease) than those who stuck to just a few types.
It Will Help You Slim Down. Low in calories and packed with water and fiber, fruit fills you up without filling you out. In fact, research shows that people who eat it every day have lower BMIs than those who don't - even lower than veggie eaters.
You Can Mix It With Everything. Blend chopped cherries with lean ground beef for a succulent burger, or grill skewers that alternate cantaloupe chunks with bell pepper and red onion. For a sweet finish, top frozen yogurt with sliced plums.

Bella Gets Real Giveaway....

2010-08-03T07:06:00.000-07:00

I have to say, I love my Bella Gets Real read. I am an avid ~~stalker~~ reader of her blog. She covers everything from Fashion, How to's, etc.etc... If you haven't already been to her blog, shame on you, get over there now!!

You will especially want to go now because she is having her very first giveaway. One lucky winner is going to get this blouse!!. So, go and check out her new blog look and enter her giveaway while you're at it. You won't be sorry!

Weekly Outfits 7/26/10 thru 8/1/10

2010-08-02T06:27:00.000-07:00

Here are last week's outfits in review

7/26/10 Draped Chambray Dress by Leifsdottir

7/27/10 Striped Bateau-Neck Top and Linda Straight-Leg Denim by M. Missoni

7/28/10 Wendy Top and Ciggi Resort Pants by Kate Spade

7/29/10 Trench-Style Parka, Narrow Pants and Pullover Top by Akris

7/30/10 Icon-Print Jersey Shift Dress by Emilio Pucci

7/31/10 Sleeveless Shift Dress with Scoop Back by Gucci

8/1/10 Dog-Print Silk Dress by Thakoon

Shoe shopping!

2010-08-01T06:25:00.000-07:00

I had a bit of shopping fun this morning and here is what I bought!! I can't wait to get them.

Click to buy

I needed a pair of comfortable flats that I could just slip on with a cute skirt or with jeans....really with whatever....and these were on sale for $90.00. YES!! They're Ted Baker Rhian Flats in Black Patent.

Click to buy

I also needed a pair of brown sandals. I have a ton of black, but barely any brown. I like to wear them with my jeans and shorts, so I bought these beauties for $119.00. They're GUESS by Marciano Charelle Strappy Platforms. They look so gorgeous, but I was a little scared about the gold. I hope they don't turn out looking gaudy. I cannot wait to get them though. I guess I'll know in a few days.

Tell me what you think and if you have any fun outfit ideas for these!! Thanks!

So you think you can dance........

2010-07-31T11:09:00.000-07:00

This post is in honor of our new holiday, National Dance Day.

My daughter performed at the Relay for Life this morning. She was in two performances, costume change and all. I think she has been on stage more times in her mere 5 years than I have been in my entire life. She loves it and is quite a ham on stage. Here you go.....

We're on our way to the stage. She is pretty excited!!

She is in awe of all of the people, there are so many.

Check out his cool ride!

Her first set.

It's pretty cold while they're waiting to go onstage.

Her second set.

Taking a few laps in support of the cause!

The Day Just Began.....Already Giveaway

2010-07-30T07:12:00.000-07:00

Check out this beautiful necklace from

http://www.rock925jewelry.com/

The Day Just Began....Already is giving away this awesome necklace. If you haven't been to her blog, now is the time to go. You can catch up on her posts AND enter to win this necklace. Can't go wrong there!!

Acne Face Mask DIY

2010-07-29T09:10:00.000-07:00

Women in the northeast African nation of Eritrea often apply a facial mask of avocado, egg yolks, and honey to beat blemishes. This mix works because eggs are rich in vitamin A, or retinol, which helps heal skin. Honey helps kill bacteria cells by dehydrating them, and avocado moisturizes skin.

Be mindful of which part of the egg you use. Use egg whites only on oily skin; they act as an astringent. Use the yolk - high in fats and other helpful compounds - if you have dry skin. Use only pasteurized eggs in this mixture to eliminate the risk of salmonella. To make, mash and mix one avocado, the egg part suited to your needs, and about one tablespoon honey. Then apply to your face and leave on for 5 - 10 minutes. Add this remedy to your weekly skin care routine, or when you feel an outbreak coming on.

Garlic-Ginger Shrimp‏

2010-07-28T07:03:00.000-07:00

Here's the third recipe in "What to do with a bag of Frozen Shrimp?" Hope you are getting some use out of these EASY and delicious shrimp recipes.

2 tbsp vegetable oil
2 tbsp grated or minced peeled fresh ginger
3 garlic cloves, minced
1 pound frozen medium shrimp, thawed, peeled, and deveined
1/4 cup rice wine or dry white wine
1/2 cup chopped scallions
2 cups hot cooked brown rice

Warm oil in a nonstick skillet over medium heat. Add ginger and garlic and cook, stirring occasionally, 1 minute. Add shrimp and wine to the pan, and raise the heat to medium-high. Cook 3 minutes more or until the shrimp turn pink on both sides and are opaque. Add scallions to pan and toss well to combine. Divide rice and shrimp mixture evenly among 4 serving bowls.

Green Gracie Home Giveaway

2010-07-27T04:17:00.000-07:00

This beauty is going on an antique side table that Green Gracie Home is working on and giving to ONE OF YOU! Yes, you heard it, she is shipping an antique side table to YOU!

If you haven't checked out her blog, you should! The transformations she does are amazing. Very talented person with a great blog. Go and enter to try and win the table. Based on her other stuff, I am sure it will be beautiful.

Weekly Outfits 7/19/10 thru 7/25/10

2010-07-26T08:35:00.000-07:00

Here are last week's outfits in review

7/19/10 Taffeta Quilted Dress by Zac Posen

7/20/10 Tie-Front Heaton Dress by Diane von Furstenberg

7/21/10 Floral-Print One-Shoulder Dress by Shoshanna

7/22/10 Lace Jumpsuit by 3.1 Phillip Lim

7/23/10 Dolman Sleeve with Fitted Skirt Dress by Alice + Olivia

7/24/10 Deep V-Neck Muscle T and Tribal Print Miniskirt by Robert Rodriquez

7/25/10 Leopard Print Tie-Waist Dress by Diane von Furstenberg

Say WHAT?? An award for me!!! YES

2010-07-24T08:01:00.000-07:00

If you haven't already realized, I love me an award!!

So, clearly, you know I was very excited when Cherry Chanel awarded me this INSPIRING blog award! I know why she received it.....because she has inspirational fashion style! She is new to the blogging world, but is already one of my must reads!! Go check her out.

The Rules:
1) Post this award on your blog.
2) List things/people that inspire you.
3) Award 5-10 other blogs that you believe are an inspiration for others.
4) Let these bloggers know they won this award.

Can I? Should I? Dare I mention him again?? OK, I have to say I have been inspired by.............none other than...........William Shatner. Not because I have a crush on him and not because he was Captain Kirk. NO, I have been inspired by him because, although he totally lacks any singing talent, he will, without fear, sing on national TV and in front of anyone who will listen. But not only that.....he has also had a recording contract and an album (which I own, of course). How can that not inspire you!!

My mother was and is a huge inspiration for me. She came from the poorest of backgrounds, born in a foreign country where girls were not appreciated, and her father was killed when she was just a little girl. Any one of these items could crush your spirit, but not my mother. She was strong and determined. She fought her way through the poverty and made her OWN way to America where she worked hard and long to build a life for herself and her family back home. She had no formal education, but was able to learn our language and work hard to give her daughters (yup, she had all girls) a rich life (both monetarily and through experiences). She was strict, but taught us to love each other, stick together, and be strong females. To her, women were definitely NOT the weaker sex and she instilled that in all of us. She died of cancer almost 3 years ago, but she continues to be a huge inspiration to me.

I would like to pass this awesome award to the following blogs. If you haven't been to them, click them and visit them now. Go on!! You will be very glad you did.

A Flourishing Perspective

The Secret to Hollywood's Sexiest Brunettes

2010-07-24T08:00:00.000-07:00

Despite the blonding trend amongst some of Hollywood's most head-turning brunettes, you don't have to go blond to be a certified bombshell. Maybe that's because there's a new way to make brunette hair look extra gorgeous. Brad Johns, color director for the Red Door Spas at Elizabeth Arden NYC, calls it "invisible highlighting," a salon process in which three shades of complementary browns--coffee, chocolate, dark chocolate--are all woven through the hair to give the color life and dimension. (That's salon-speak for total awesomeness.) You don't necessarily notice the different shades immediately, but the way the scene-stealing hair catches the light can't be missed. The other bonus: On natural brunettes, these invisible highlights only need to be touched-up once or twice a year for maintenance, so it's pretty wallet-friendly. Steering clear of any dye or highlights this season? Whatever your color, Johns recommends silicone drops like Davines Defining Drops to make hair as smooth as glass after a good blow-dry.

New hope for damaged skin Health

2010-07-24T07:50:00.000-07:00

If, like a lot of people, you spent too much time in the sun as a child, you may want to try photodynamic therapy (PDT). The newly FDA-approved treatment is said to erase sun damage - and even prevent skin cancers from forming. First, your derm will apply a solution to your face that targets precancerous cells, then she'll use a light source to destroy them. Bonus: Your insurance may cover it! Go to aad.org for more info.

I AM BACK!!!

2010-07-23T10:47:00.001-07:00

We have returned from our mini vacation and I can't wait to get caught up on everyone's posts!! I'll be by to visit soon. We had a GREAT time and I'll be posting about it in the next few days. Thanks to everyone who visited me while I was gone!!!

Strawberry fields forever....

2010-07-21T08:00:00.000-07:00

Another item checked off of our summer to do list.

We went BERRY PICKING!!

We are so excited to get started!!

Wow, where do we start? How do we choose?

Attempting to pick berries. This is way harder than we thought. It's hot! You have to bend for each one. Don't know which ones to pick.

Finally, here's one we can keep.

This nice lady didn't even charge us for our pathetic bounty!! We stopped before we even came close to filling one side. She said our berries wouldn't register on the scale and gave them to us for free!!

It is a good thing we went for the experience and not for the berries. I don't think we will put this on our list next year.

The Rich and the Poor - Shrimp and Beans‏

2010-07-20T08:13:00.000-07:00

A few days ago, I did the first recipe in a series: What can you do with a bag of frozen shrimp. Here is recipe #2

1/2 cup white wine or dry vermouth
1/4 cup water
1 bay leaf
1 pound frozen medium shrimp, thawed, peeled, and deveined
1 (15.5oz) can cannellini beans, rinsed and drained
2 tbsp extra-virgin olive oil
1 tsp white wine or dry vermouth
1 tsp lemon juice
1/4 tsp each salt and pepper
2 tbsp chopped fresh parsley

Add 1/2 cup white wine or vermouth, water and bay leaf in a pan; cook over medium-high heat. When liquid starts to bubble, add shrimp; cook 3 minutes. Add beans and cook until hot. Drain shrimp and beans and transfer to a bowl; discard bay leaf. Add olive oil and toss. Add the 1 tsp white wine or vermouth, lemon juice, and salt and pepper. Top with parsley.

Weekly Outfits 7/12/10 thru 7/18/10

2010-07-19T07:52:00.000-07:00

Here are last week's outfits in review

I will not be able to read all of your lovely blogs for several days. I am already gone on a mini vacation with my daughter and will not return until late Wednesday. My husband is being so kind as to post for me.

7/12/10 Metallic-Panel Tank and Drapey Cargo Shorts by Haute Hippie

7/13/10 Degrade Asymmetric Shoulder Blouse and Multi-Seam Leggings by Narciso Rodriguez

7/14/10 Beaded-Pleat Dress by Philosophy di Alberta Ferretti

7/15/10 Violet-Print Back-Cutout Dress by Black Halo

7/16/10 Herringbone Blazer, Top and Girly-Fit Faded Jeans by D&G

7/17/10 Shadow Peony Dress by Marc by Marc Jacobs

7/18/10 Degrade Burnout Tee and Denim Zip Leggings by Vince

GIVEAWAY WINNER!!

2010-07-18T08:03:00.000-07:00

After a very scientific random drawing...........in which

my daughter drew a name out of a hat

See, my eyes are closed so I can't see!!

The winner is..............

Congratulations to Shari at little blue deer for winning my first giveaway!

Please email me your mailing information by July 21st to
tayebug2004@hotmail.com.

Thank you to everyone who entered.

Master Mineral Makeup in four steps

2010-07-17T07:11:00.000-07:00

Step 1 - Face
Ace your base - To make minerals last, prep skin with primer. For a non-cakey look, apply liquid foundation, like Maybelline New York Mineral Power Natural Perfecting Foundation SPF 18 ($10 at drugstores), with a damp sponge.

Camouflage Imperfections - Dot concealer onto flaws with a small makeup brush. Pat extra on with your finger for more coverage.
Get a flawless finish - Dip a fluffy brush, such as the Dior Backstage Makeup Powder Brush ($52 Sephora), into a translucent powder and sweep on.

Step 2 - Cheeks
Create a fresh flush - This requires a two-pronged approach. First, make a "3 and an E" on your face using bronzer and a brush: Beginning on the right side, draw the number three so the bristles start at your hairline, hit your cheekbone, and outline your jawline. Repeat the same motion on the left side, outlining an imaginary E. Second, add blush to the apples of your cheeks so they pop. A bronzer to try: Physicians Formula Mineral Wear 100% Mineral BronzeBrightener ($14 at drugstores); a must-have blush: CoverGirl TruBlend Microminerals Blush in Natural Rose ($11 at drugstores)

Step 3 - Eyes
Emphasize your eyes - Regardless of the look you're going for - subtle or dramatic - the goal is a standout gaze. Complement brown eyes with earthy tones, subtle golds, or soft grays; enhance blue eyes with shimmering taupes, like Pur Minerals Pressed Mineral Eye Shadow in Gold Marcasite ($13 at purminerals.com); and play up green eyes with khaki or moss shades. To intensify the effect, sweep on a liner in a matching or - for evening drama - contrasting shade. Finish with two coats of black mascara.

Step 4 - Lips

Paint your pout - The pigments in mineral formulations aren't as saturated as traditional ones, so you might have to add coats to get the intensity you desire. Pick a hue that works with your skin tone. If you're fair, choose softer pinks similar to Wallett Eco Gloss in Bohemian Blush ($20 at wallett.com); if you're medium, try a vibrant berry hue, such as Emani Minerals Hydrating Mineral Lip Color in VIP ($16 at emani.com). Everything from beigey bronze to rich plum flatters a dark complexion.

Tomato and Shrimp Stew

2010-07-16T06:02:00.000-07:00

So, what can you do with a bag of frozen shrimp? In the next few days, I will be giving you three different recipes telling you just that!!.

1 pound frozen medium shrimp, thawed, peeled, and deveined
1 large onion, diced
2 garlic cloves
2 tbsp olive oil
1/2 tsp salt
1/2 tsp pepper
1 (26oz) can whole tomatoes
dash of sugar
1/2 cup chopped fresh basil
1/2 pound cooked pasta

Cook onion and garlic in 1 tablespoon warm olive oil until tender. Season with 1/2 teaspoon each salt and pepper. Add whole tomatoes and sugar; cook 10 minutes. Add basil. Season shrimp with salt and pepper to taste and saute with 1 tablespoon warm olive oil in a separate pan for 3 minutes or until opaque. Add shrimp to tomato mixture, and toss with pasta. Garnish with additional basil.

8 Reasons to start loving your body TODAY

2010-07-15T07:38:00.000-07:00

Life is short; why spend it bashing your body? If you need help jump-starting your self-acceptance, just read this list of reasons to embrace yourself - from head to toe.

1. BECAUSE it's unique; no one else has the same one.

2. BECAUSE it's capable of extraordinary feats, enabling you to run, climb, jump, lift, squat, snuggle, and spoon.

3. BECAUSE no matter how badly your treat it, it's willing to give you another chance.

4. BECAUSE it's expressive, telling you how it feels (pay attention!) and broadcasting to others how you feel about it.

5. BECAUSE, let's face it, confidence is pretty sexy.

6. BECAUSE your daughter must learn to love hers.

7. BECAUSE somebody out there (or many somebodies!) admires, covets, and adores it.

8. BECAUSE you'll regret not loving it more later!

Don't forget to enter my GIVEAWAY! Tomorrow is the last day to enter.

GIVEAWAY by elle hearts blogs

2010-07-14T06:45:00.000-07:00

You are probably going to want to check this one out!!!

elle hearts blogs is having a fantastic giveaway. YES, those items in the picture above are the actual giveaway items. There are way too many to tell, so just go over there and enter. You will see what I'm talking about!

Chuck e Cheese to the rescue

2010-07-13T07:21:00.000-07:00

Well, my daughter and I checked off another item from our summer to do list! Yeah for us. We had planned to go to Wallace Falls a couple Thursdays ago. I had checked weather.com several times to make sure it would be a nice day and it was supposed to be, all the way up until the day when it started raining! So we switched up our plans and went to Chuck e Cheese instead. It is on our list, it's an indoor activity and my daughter loves it, so why not!

Don't forget to enter my VERY FIRST GIVEAWAY!! Ends July 16th.

Weekly Outfits 7/5/10 thru 7/11/10

2010-07-12T06:52:00.000-07:00

Here are last week's outfits in review

7/5/10 One-Shoulder Waves Dress by Ali Ro

7/6/10 Kimberly Two-In-One Minidress by Black Halo

7/7/10 Leather-Fringe Cardigan and Gitan-Print Draped Dress by Catherine Malandrino

7/8/10 Clotilda Brushstroke Top and Gretel Convertible Leggings by Diane von Furstenberg

7/9/10 Birkin Dress by Elizabeth & James

7/10/10 Sateen Cap-Sleeve Dress by Helmut Lang

7/11/10 Pipe-Detail Trench Jacket, Slub Stripe Cropped Tee and Cropped Alexey Denim Leggings by Juicy Couture

Don't forget to enter my VERY FIRST GIVEAWAY! Ends July 16th.

Tagged by What Mimi Writes..........

2010-07-11T05:57:00.000-07:00

TAG, YOU'RE IT!!

I have been tagged by What Mimi Writes. She has an awesome blog with fashion ideas and beauty products and lots more!! I am to answer her questions and then pass on my own set of questions to another five bloggers. So, here are her questions........

1. What is your all-time favorite movie?

Wow, that's a hard one, it changes as I change. I do love Moulin Rouge and I go back and watch it every now and then. Ewan is GORGEOUS and who doesn't love a musical!!!

2. Where do you see yourself in 10 years? What do you want your life to be like by that time?

I guess I'm old enough now that I see myself where I currently am, but with many more life experiences under my belt. I love my life, but of course, would like more money and more time.

3. There was another earthquake here in California yesterday. I'm just wondering, do you believe in "end of the world"? (Sorry, if this is too heavy to think about! I'm just really wondering.)

The "end of the world" has happened on earth 3 times in the past, so I guess I believe in it. Do I think it is going to happen in my lifetime or my children's lifetime? No, I hope not!!

4. Okay, no more heavy questions. What is your favorite summer purchase so far?

A pair of Sevens that I got at a thrift store for $5.99. Yup, you heard me right!!

5. What was your first job?

McDonald's for 2 weeks when I turned 16

6. Why did you decide to start blogging?

I had wanted to try it for a long time, but never did. My sister started one and it inspired me to do it too.

7. Where do you and your friends like to hang out?

I'm past the age that we hang out anywhere.

8. If you could go back to any age, what age would that be and why?

Probably 31. Not too young, but no signs of aging yet. Smokin face and body!! But, I want the life that I have now. I just want the age, but nothing else that came with that age.

OK, so now for my questions

1. You have three wishes, what would they be?

2. What cosmetic piece of work would you have done (or have had done)?

3. What is your must have fashion item?

4. If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be?

5. What is the craziest thing you've ever done?

6. Who is your favorite musical artist at the moment?

7. What was the last movie you watched?

8. Passion or Quiet Happiness?

And now I will pass this on to........

Fashion-Guide
Cherry Chanel's
How to...
Sexy Legs and Body
Pink So Foxy

Don't forget to enter my giveaway HERE!

An easy way to get motivated!

2010-07-10T07:09:00.000-07:00

Banish the word "should" from

your vocabulary and you may

find you can accomplish anything.

By saying you should do

something, like exercise, it

immediately implies you feel the

activity is a burden, but replace "should" with "want"

and you'll start to build positive energy. So

try telling yourself that you want to

work out today and you'll get in the

right mind-set to go to the gym,

which is half the battle!

Linguine in fresh tomato sauce with garlic-basil toast

2010-07-09T08:15:00.000-07:00

10 oz dried linguine

3 Tbsp olive oil
6 cloves garlic, minced, or 1 tbsp bottled minced garlic
2 English muffins, split
2/3 cup fresh basil, chopped
1 pint small tomatoes, halved
1/2 cup chicken broth or pasta water
1 tsp sugar
1/2 cup halved, pitted kalamata olives (optional)
Grated Parmesan cheese; fresh basil (optional)

1. Heat broiler. Cook pasta according to package directions. Drain, set aside.
2. Meanwhile, in bowl combine 1 tablespoon of the oil and about one-third of the minced garlic; brush on cut sides of muffins. Place muffins on baking sheet. Broil, 3 to 4 inches from broiler, for 2 to 3 minutes, until golden. Sprinkle 1 tablespoon of the chopped basil; set aside.
3. In large saucepan heat remaining oil over medium-high. Add remaining garlic, basil, and the tomatoes. Cook 2 minutes; add broth and sugar. Cook 3 to 4 minutes, until tomatoes soften. Season with salt and pepper. Stir in pasta and olives; heat through. Sprinkle cheese and basil.

Don't forget to enter my VERY FIRST GIVEAWAY!!! It ends July 16th.

GIVEAWAY - My first one

2010-07-08T07:21:00.000-07:00

I purchased a ring through Etsy from Madrin Designs not too long ago. They were offering a buy one, get one free.

I had never purchased anything from Etsy, but the ring looked so cute, I thought I would give it a try, but alas, it wasn't for me. Not that they aren't cute, but they don't quite fit my style and I know that I will never wear them.

Well, rather than having them sit in my jewelry box collecting dust, I thought I would do my first giveaway and give them to someone who might appreciate them.

I am also including a Sephora sample of eyeshadow, eyeliner and mascara.

So, for this GIVEAWAY, you will receive both rings AND the Sephora sample Gift Set. Good LUCK!

TO ENTER: (Leave Each as a Separate Comment)

1. For 2 Entries: Become of follower of my blog and leave a comment saying so! Or if you already are a follower, tell me so.
2. For 1 more Entry: Grab my button, post it on your blog and let me know! I'll grab yours too.

3. For 2 more Entries: Tweet about this giveaway with a link and come back here and comment with a link.

4. For 2 more Entries: Blog about this giveaway and leave a comment with a link to your post!
A total of 7 ways to enter!!!
I'm sorry to say this giveaway is only open to U.S. residents. The contest runs through July 16th. On July 17th, a winner will be pulled from a hat by my daughter and the winner posted on the 18th. The winner will have until the 21st to contact me or another winner will be chosen! Thank you in advance and good luck!!!

DIY - Exfoliating Scrub‏

2010-07-07T06:23:00.000-07:00

This is a soothing, cleansing body treatment that will leave your skin feeling baby soft and refreshed!

In a medium glass mixing bowl, combine:

4 cups sea salt
1/4 cup baby oil
1 cup purified water

Wet entire body in a warm shower. Turn off water. Scoop out a handful of salt mixture and rub onto skin in a gentle circular motion. Add more mixture as needed. Be sure to avoid face and genital areas. Rinse. Wash with a rough, soapy washcloth. Rinse. Wait 2 hours before using a moisturizer. Avoid open sores and varicose veins.

Our 4th of July celebration

2010-07-06T06:59:00.000-07:00

My family and I had such a lovely Fourth of July! We went to my father's house on the lake, had a BBQ and spent the day eating, laughing and talking. The kids did some fishing off the dock and then lit off some light fireworks and then when it got dark, we sat back and watched the show. Some of the people who live on the lake do a CRAZY fireworks show. Better than the ones I see put on by the cities. It's amazing how much people will spend on explosives! There were times when I didn't know where to look, there were so many displays. Then, tired and worn out, we drove home. So nice!!

Watching the boats

My daughter and great nephew posing for the camera

She's a ham, what can I say

Reflecting......

My nephew and son being great role-models, having a roman candle fight

Finally dark enough for sparklers!!

Some of the fireworks show. I wish I was a better photographer. They were amazing!

Weekly Outfits 6/28/10 thru 7/4/10

2010-07-05T06:00:00.000-07:00

Here are last week's outfits in review

It was ALL ABOUT MARC JACOBS last week

6/28/10 Tarta turquoise multi blazing stardress

6/29/10 Pale khaki billie twill trench

6/30/10 Ruby red willis knit jacket, deep sapphire selma check shirt and midnight teal alberta striped shorts

7/1/10 Bright navy darby sweater

7/2/10 Quail turquoise mooney cotton top and kiki heart cover up shorts

7/3/10 Midnight teal alberta stripe jacket and electric pop pink two tone colored denim

7/4/10 Salsa red wave print interloc tunic

Happy 4th of July

2010-07-04T05:51:00.000-07:00

Have a wonderful and safe 4th of July celebration!!

Look Slim Beauty Secrets

2010-07-03T12:41:00.001-07:00

A few simple hair, skin, and makeup moves can make you look like you've dropped 10 pounds! Do this while you try to do the real thing, so you can effortlessly look slimmer this summer.

1.Glow for it - Applying a self-tanner has a near instant slimming effect. You can go for the instant tan with Estee Lauder Bronze Goddess Golden Perfection Tinted Self-Tanning Gelee ($29; esteelauder.com), which gets skin golden in six hours, or Jergens Natural Glow Foaming Daily Moisturizer ($9; at drugstores), for a gradual build.

2. Steer clear of bobs and pixies - Long, layered styles will make your face look more slender. Ask your stylist for chunky layers that skim the face to chisel your cheekbones. And because blunt bangs can make your face appear rounder, if you want them, ask for sideswept fringe that falls at about nose level.

3. Do away with "orange peel" - Look more svelte by temporarily reducing the appearance of cellulite with a skin-smoothing cream. Since these creams provide only a temporary reduction in dimpling, you'll have to reapply them for prolonged effects. Check out Tarte CelluFight ($40; sephora.com) which is tinted to give your skin a golden glow or Nivea Good-Bye Cellulite 30-Day Body Beauty Program ($19; drugstores), with dietary supplements that contain L-carnitine, which is said to promote lean muscle mass.

Skuzzy Days

2010-07-03T12:31:00.000-07:00

We all like to lounge around in sweats and do nothing but watch dumb shows like Gossip Girl or something with sexy vampires and that is completely fine. The problem is when you leave your house like that, it is always best to not look as though your a dirty bum, and I can say that without offending anyone because bums don't have computers or maybe even read? Anyway if you do not want to get out of those comfy sweats when you leave your house that is fine but make sure your not wearing a sweatshirt with those sweat pants. Always avoid wearing an outfit wear you say the word sweat twice! And definitely fix your hair so its not in a mamm bun or weird pony tail. I went out once with a sweatshirt, sweats, and my hair in a mamm bun but I only went to the library, did not think I was going to run into anyone. I was wrong, and looked like skuzzy skum. Embarrassing.

Edward...Jacob... WHO CARES....I want JASPER!!!

2010-07-02T16:44:00.000-07:00

So, I finally made it to see Eclipse. I'm in the theater anxiously awaiting the start of the movie when a woman yells out "YES" as she is unable to contain her enthusiasm. You can really tell she is excited for the movie to start............Oh wait....Am I talking about myself in the third person again? Apparently so, because that woman was ME! I had gotten myself all worked up the last couple of days in anticipation of today.

I do have to say that I barely noticed JASPER in the previous two movies. I don't know if it was the excitement of seeing the characters of Edward and Bella come to life in Twilight, or the shock of Jacob's much needed haircut in New Mood, but Jasper just kind of slipped under the radar.

And may I ask HOW exactly was that possible? How did I miss Mr. Cutie McHottie pants before? I don't know, but he sure isn't under the radar anymore. Due to the sheer hotness of Jasper, I had to go sneak into The Last Airbender and watch him in that also.

Now, enough of Jasper. It was a pretty good movie and I will say that Kristen Stewart looked her best. She was really pretty in this movie. Hope you had a chance to watch Eclipse too. Tell me, who is your favorite character? Did you notice Jasper as I had?

Pepper Jelly and Soy Glazed Salmon

2010-07-01T06:14:00.000-07:00

1-2lb fresh or frozen skinless salmon fillet, about 1 inch thick
2/3 cup green jalapeno pepper jelly
1/3 cup rice vinegar
1/3 cup soy sauce
3 green onions, sliced
1 Tbsp grated fresh ginger
2 tsp toasted sesame oil
3 cloves garlic, minced
1/4 tsp crushed red pepper
1/4 cup snipped fresh cilantro
1/4 cup sliced fresh jalapeno chile peppers and/or sliced green onions

1. Thaw fish, if frozen. Rinse fish; pat dry. In saucepan melt jelly over low heat; remove. Stir in next 7 ingredients. Place fish in shallow dish; pour mixture over fish. Cover; refrigerate 1 to 2 hours, turning fish occasionally.
2. Remove fish from marinade; reserve marinade. For charcoal grill, arrange medium hot coals around edge of grill. Test for medium heat in center of grill. Place fish on greased piece of heavy-duty foil in center of grill. Cover; gril 15 to 18 minutes or until fish flakes when tested with a fork. (For gas grill, adjust for indirect cooking. Grill over medium heat as above.)
3. Bring reserved marinade to boiling; reduce heat. Simmer, uncovered, 10 to 15 minutes or until reduced to 1/2 cup. Drizzle over fish; sprinkle cilantro, peppers, and onions. Serves 8

Reclaim your fresh, youthful radiance

2010-06-30T14:35:00.000-07:00

Do you need something to give your skin glow!

High school may be long over, but you can help skin act the way it did back then by sloughing off dull surface cells to uncover smoother, more resilient skin underneath. Try a microdermabrasion cream such as Estee Lauder Idealist Micro-D ($46). Unlike with a peel, results are instant. Use light pressure; the granulated texture does all the work.

To make extra sure you'll be carded for that mimosa over brunch, complement bright skin with an even tone: Blotchy pigmentation can add up to 12 years to your perceived age!!! Tinted moisturizer, such as light-reflecting Olay Definity Color Recapture, $25, camouflages imperfections but appears natural. Apply a sheer coat of regular lotion first so tint won't soak into dry spots, causing splotches. Wear the tint daily; repeat the exfoliation each weekend.

I rode the bump!!

2010-06-29T06:12:00.000-07:00

You may or may not have known that "Ride a camel" was on my to do list. Well, that has been moved to my completed list. This last week my daughter, her best friend in the whole world, Olivia, and I rode a camel. My daughter has done it before, but it was a first for me. (and Olivia).

I have to say that it was totally fun. I laughed almost the entire time. I am a big, big dork. No, it wasn't in their natural habitat, but it might be awhile before I visit anywhere that would be, so I rode the camel at the zoo.

My sister was kind enough to document it for me. Here are the pics.........

While we were at it, we also crossed off a few things on our Summer to do list.

We went to the zoo

Flew a kite

Went to the beach

Went for a hike

We all had such a great time! Can't wait to do more things on BOTH lists!

Weekly Outfits 6/21/10 thru 6/27/10

2010-06-28T12:58:00.000-07:00

Here are last week's outfits in review

6/21/10 Gayle One-Shoulder Ruffle Dress by Marc by Marc Jacobs

6/22/10 Searl Top and Taipa Shorts by Diane von Furstenberg

Ariel Mini Dress by Black Halo

6/24/10 Gingham Off-Shoulder Dress by Leifsdottir

6/25/10 Renegade Drawstring Jumpsuit by Diane von Furstenberg

6/26/10 Brodie Plaid Dress by Marc by Marc Jacobs

6/27/10 Striped Rosette tank and Piper Skirt by Kate Spade

Have I mentioned how much I LOVE thee?

2010-06-27T06:24:00.000-07:00

Oh yes, I do love an award.....especially if it's for me! Does that make me egotistic, narcissistic, vainglorious?? (Love that word by the way). I don't know, but I do love to get them. So, you can imagine how happy I was when Green Gracie Home bestowed upon me this award....................

OK, so with great power comes great responsibility (or something like that)

Thank and link back to the person who gave you this award.
Share seven things about yourself.
Pass this award to fifteen bloggers who you have recently discovered and who you think are fantastic for whatever reason!
Contact the bloggers you picked and let them know about the award.

Seven things about me:

I have a huge crush on William Shatner. I have for years and I can't help myself. He is so much older than me, but I would totally sleep with him. Is that gross? Probably.

I lived in Nelson, New Zealand when I was 19 years old. Moved there on the spur of the moment with a New Zealand guy I met a month before. He took me and my son and I actually picked kiwi's from a tree.

I hardly EVER pay for a movie at the theaters. I cannot seem to get myself to do it. I know it's kind of like stealing, but I buy popcorn and sodas and that comes to $18.00. Isn't that enough to pay to go see a movie? I just walk in with a purpose, flash the ticket stubs I've had since 1997, and pick my seat. Is there any other way to do it?

I will spend money I don't even have if it seems like I am getting a great bargain. Never mind that I don't need whatever it is, it's 80% off the regular price. Look how much money I'm saving................right?

Alberta Ferretti Draped One-Shoulder Dress

Original: $1,495.00

NOW: $523.00

I wanted to name my daughter either August or September, but every single person in my family vetoed it. What?? They're cute names, aren't they? Well, aren't they??

Partied a lot with Dave Krusen, the original drummer of Pearl Jam, back in my "groupie" stage. Was completely in the "grunge scene" at its height and hung out with many aspiring bands. Live like a rock star when you're young, because it's too hard to do when you get older.

I can eat an entire medium pizza hut pizza by myself. Now, I refrain from doing it most of the time due to the sheer amount of calories I would consume, but I can and I have and SO WHAT!! Sometimes, you just need to eat an entire pizza.

And now for the FAB 15 in no particular order:

Village

The Alternative Wife

peardrops & polkadots

Melanie's Randomness

Journey of the Incessant dieter

It's my time to bloom

So take a few moments and visit some of these blogs. You will be happy that you did. They are great for everything from fashion advice, product reviews, travel info, DIY projects, fitness and more. I bet at least one of these will become a daily read for you. Thanks again.

Tag, you're it.........

2010-06-26T05:38:00.000-07:00

Not just a fun game for kids anymore. Oh no, I have joined my first tag. I was reading Viva La Fashion because, well, she's a must read.........anyways, she did a tag with music. It seems fun, so I'm going to do it. If you do it too, come back and comment me and let me know so I can come over and see your fun responses.

Here are the rules!

1. Put your MP3/iPod/iTunes on shuffle

2. For each question, press the next button to get your answer

3. You must write down the name, no matter how silly it sounds. So here goes.....

If someone says "Is this okay?" you say:

Full Moon (The Black Ghosts)

How would you describe yourself?
Take Everything (Courtney Love)

What do you like in a guy/girl?
Running up that hill (Placebo)

What is your life's purpose?
Eyes on Fire (Blue Foundation)

What's your motto?
Why (Enigma)

What do your friends think of you?
Somewhere only we know (Keane)

What do your parents think of you?
All the same (Sick Puppies)

What do you think about very often?
The Garden (Mirah)

What do you think of the person you like?
Take a bow (Muse)

Silly, I know, but pretty fun anyways. This tag is for anyone who wants to do it. Have fun with it.

Dazzling-Duo Organic Facial

2010-06-25T07:38:00.000-07:00

1 1/2 cups water
2 chamomile teabags
1/4 cup plain yogurt
1/4 cup honey
squeeze of lemon juice
1/4 cup dry oatmeal (not the instant kind)
unscented paper towels

Step 1
1. Boil 1 cup of the water and pour it into a wide bowl. Add the teabags and allow to steep for 10 minutes.
2. Pour the yogurt, honey, and lemon juice into another bowl, mixing thoroughly. Set aside.
3. In a third bowl, mix the oatmeal with 1/2 cup cool or lukewarm water.
4. Wash your face with a gentle cleanser and pat dry. Then use your fingers to gently massage the oatmeal mixture over your face, using a circular motion.
5. Leave the mixture on your skin for 5 minutes, then rinse off with warm water and pat dry.

Step 2
1. Smooth on an even layer of the honey-yogurt mask.
2. Dip 5 to 8 paper towels, one by one, into the tea. Wring gently, and place each one over a different area of your face to create the mummy effect. Leave your mouth and nostrils free so you can still breath easily. (Hint: It helps if you're lying down, so the tissues stay in place.)
3. Relax for 15 minutes, then rinse your face again using cool water to seal in the moisture and close your bores against bacteria.

* LEMON FRESH - A natural exfoliant and antioxidant, citric acid is used in many cosmetics to brighten the skin and discourage bacteria. For a quick boost that helps control oil, apply a teaspoon of lemon juice to clean skin. Leave on for 5 minutes, then rinse well with warm water.

* CARROT CURE - If your skin has broken out, skip the oatmeal scrub and try this healing alternative: Finely grate one medium carrot in the blender, and smooth it over your skin. Rinse and follow with the honey-yogurt mask. Carrots are rich in vitamin A, a powerful antiseptic that fights acne. Take that!

Summer to do list

2010-06-24T06:40:00.000-07:00

Well, school is out and my daughter is on Summer Vacation!! YEAH!!! We can't really do any formal vacations this summer since my husband has started a new job and can't really ask for time off. So, my daughter and I decided to write a list of things we want to do this summer.

We were inspired by a post done by Holiday Haven. She always has wonderful ideas and she is a daily read for me! She did a post with a list of small activities that families can do (HERE) and it inspired us to write our own list.

Here are the fun activities that my daughter and I are going to do this summer (hopefully, we will check them all off by the time she starts 1st grade.)

Go to the beach
Go to the rainforest

Go to the zoo
Go to Paradise (on Mt. Rainier)
Go to Snoqualmie Falls
Camp in the back yard

Go to Friday Harbor
Take a hike
Go to Seattle Center

Go berry picking
Go to Mt St. Helens

Go real camping
Ride Bike on Ruston Way
Take the train (anywhere)

Ride the Seattle Ducks
Fly a kite
Go to the top of the Space Needle

Go to NW Trek
Go see a lighthouse

Go to an amusement park

Go to Chuck e Cheeses

I am sure we will add more items on our list as the summer progresses, but these were the initial things she wanted to do and I think it sounds like an awesome summer!!!

Grilled chicken with peanut sauce

2010-06-23T07:20:00.000-07:00

1 garlic clove, minced
1/4 cup peanut butter (any kind)
2 tbsp sugar
1/4 tsp red chile flakes
2 tbsp reduced-sodium soy sauce
4 boned, skinned chicken breast halves (about 2 lbs)
1 tbsp vegetable oil

1. Prepare a grill for high heat (450 to 550degrees). In a small saucepan over medium heat, cook garlic and peanut butter together until simmering, about 4 minutes. Whisk in sugar, chile flakes, soy sauce, and 2/3 cup water. Reduce heat and simmer, stirring occasionally, until starting to thicken, about 10 minutes.
2. Meanwhile, rub chicken with oil and grill until golden brown and almost cooked through, turning once, about 6 minutes total. Brush top of each chicken piece with 1 tbsp peanut sauce and cook just until sauce starts to caramelize, about 2 minutes. Serve with steamed vegetables and remaining sauce on the side.

Nasal Congestion

2010-06-23T07:16:00.000-07:00

The next time you have a stuffy nose, try this old Russian remedy: In a bowl, juice one clove of garlic with a garlic press, add a half teaspoon honey, and squeeze out the inside of one aloe vera leaf. Then soak two cotton balls in the mixture and insert them loosely into your nostrils for about five minutes. (no, I am not lying) Here's why it works: Garlic has powerful antibacterial properties (it was used to fight soldiers' infections in World War II when no antibiotics were handy). Honey also is antibacterial and works as an astringent. The aloe moisturizes sore nasal tissue. Take note: Steel yourself for this remedy, because the smell of raw garlic juice can be a little hard to handle!!

Fashion Blogger Award

2010-06-22T06:09:00.000-07:00

It took me awhile to get this out, but here it is. Thank you to see the world through my cam! They have outstanding photos and I can't get enough!

Now, there are so many wonderful fashion blogs out there. I love looking at the style "how to's" and the "looks" they put together. I can't believe the wardrobe some of these people have!! I would love to have their closets.

So, I am bestowing the following award to the following bloggers...........

A Model Moment
How To...
Style by Rachael
To the Nines
La vie J'aime

The rules....

1. Give your best style advice
Be sure you have good posture! Everything looks better when you do.

2. Show us your "go to" outfit

I notice I have been wearing this outfit constantly. (a little too often) So comfy and cute

3. Show us what you can't live without right now (fashion wise)

My Louis Vuitton. I use it almost EVERY DAY!

4. Pass this on to 5 other fashion bloggers
see above

Thank you for my daily fashion fix. Love your blogs!!!!

Weekly Outfits 6/14/10 thru 6/20/10

2010-06-21T07:00:00.000-07:00

Here are last week's outfits in review

6/14/10 White T-Shirt and Love Daylight Boyfriend Jeans by CJ by Cookie Johnson

6/15/10 Cropped Leather Jacket, Obi-belt Tank and Side-Zip Leggings by Brunello Cucinelli

6/16/10 Jacquard Combo Dress by Ali Ro

6/17/10 Cashmere-Trim Slouchy Sweater, Everything Cami and High-Waist cropped pants by Vince

6/18/10 Jessica Dress by Alice + Olivia

6/19/10 Tribal Racerback Dress by Alice + Olivia

6/20/10 Fringed Aberle Dress by Diane von Furstenberg

Happy Father's Day...........

2010-06-20T06:06:00.000-07:00

So, I am not the crafty type person. I try, oh how I try, but my talents just don't fall in this category.

Well, with Father's Day coming up, my daughter and I had to figure out what to get for my husband. You can only buy so many golf balls, golf clubs, golf shoes, golf...........well, you get the picture. I wanted this Father's day gift to be more personal, more about what our daughter can give to her father, not what I can buy in a store. I had no idea what I was going to do until I came across Keeping it Simple. She had the cutest idea for a handmade t-shirt. Well, I was inspired.........(you will be too if you visit her blog, she has a lot of fun ideas!)

So, I bought a t-shirt from Marshalls for $2.99 (how is that for a bargain) and some fabric paint and told my daughter we were going to make daddy a special t-shirt. She had SO MUCH FUN doing this shirt, that I think I may make it a Father's Day tradition. And how cute to see the progression of her hand prints and her artistic abilities as the years go by.

So, here it is.....................TA DA!!!!!

I hope everyone has as wonderful a day as we're about to have.

HAPPY FATHER'S DAY

Fine and Straight - Your 3-Step summer hair plan

2010-06-19T06:28:00.001-07:00

No-Heat Plan for fine and straight hair

1. In the shower: Your hair probably gets oily quickly, so shampoo daily with a volumizing shampoo and conditioner. Paul Mitchell Lemon Sage thickening Shampoo is gentle enough to use frequently. Conditioner weighs down fine hair; apply it only from midlength to ends. Try Aveda Pure Abundance Volumizing Clay Conditioner which has kaolin clay to make hair appear fuller.

2. When hair is still damp: Straight, fine hair falls even flatter when you use the wrong styling products. Stay away from oils, serums, or anything that boasts "extra hold" - these formulas can be heavy. Instead, choose a lightweight volumizing spray, like L'Oreal Professionnel Volume Expand Volumizing Root Lift Spray, and mist it only at the roots. Blow-drying for a few minutes helps the product create some oomph.

3. Just before you leave the house: Hairspray is drying because it contains alcohol; use it to reduce oiliness. TreSemme 24 Hour Body Finishing Spray provides hold without freezing your style in place, and also adds shine.

Avocado-Bean wrap

2010-06-18T06:33:00.000-07:00

2 ripe avocados
1 cup fresh or jarred salsa
2 tsp oil
1 red pepper, chopped
1 cup shredded carrots
1/2 tsp ground cumin
1 can (15 oz) low-sodium black beans, rinsed
1/3 cup chopped cilantro
4 whole-wheat wraps
4 cups coarsely chopped or shredded romaine lettuce
Serve with : Lime wedges

1. Remove pit and peel avocados. Coarsely chop 1 avocado; mash the other avocado in a small bowl and stir in 1/4 cup salsa until blended. Cover with plastic wrap and set aside
2. Heat oil in medium skillet over medium-high heat. Saute pepper and carrots 3 minutes. Add cumin and cook 30 seconds or until fragrant. Add beans and remaining 3/4 cup salsa; heat through. Stir in the chopped avocado and cilantro; mix well.
3. Spread about 3 tbsp mashed avocado-salsa mixture on each wrap and top with 1 cup lettuce. Spoon 1 cup bean mixture over bottom third of wrap. Starting at bottom, roll up tightly. Place seam side down on serving platter. Serve with lime wedges.

Deep Conditioner

2010-06-17T06:22:00.000-07:00

In this all-purpose conditioner, the olive oil conditions and moisturizes your hair while the egg softens it. Store in a glass or plastic container in the refrigerator. Shake before using, as mixture will separate as it sits.

1 teaspoon olive oil
3 - 4 drops of your favorite essential oil
1 egg, beaten

In a bowl, mix ingredients with whisk or fork. Pour over head and massage into hair and scalp. Cover hair with shower cap and leave on 20 minutes. Wash out with gentle shampoo.

Prada.........What do you think?

2010-06-16T06:34:00.000-07:00

I'm a pretty big fan of Prada, but I'm not so sure I'm a fan of the Camouflage collection.........

So, what do you think? Do you like it? How would you wear it? Give me inspiration.....

Thick and Straight (ish) hair

2010-06-15T06:17:00.000-07:00

My hair is thick! I mean thick!! That can cause a lot of challenges (huge hair anyone) and joy (I'm not going bald). So, I asked a top Seattle stylist for the skinny on thick hair care and this is what he said.

Your Good Fortune: You have a lot of hair - thick, lush, and full.

Your Challenge: You have a lot of hair - heavy and a bit coarse. As the humidity rises, it probably tends to expand, usually into a triangular silhouette, widening at the bottom.

Your Ideal Cut: Length helps keep a mass of hair from becoming overinflated - but you don't have to grow your hair down your back. A cut that falls at least to your collarbone has enough weight to give you the extra control you need. You also want long layers, starting about four inches above your ends; they're key to keeping your hair from stacking into that pyramid shape. And a good idea is to use thinning shears on the last two inches, to take some of the bulk out of this hair type.

Steer Clear Of: Blunt lines. They'll make your hair look, and feel, even heavier. You don't want a cut that's perfectly even at the ends. And while long layers are a must, short ones will make it more difficult to contain your hair's fullness - the last thing you need is a shag!!

Your go-to product: A light-hold spray gel

Your Salon Checklist:

Collarbone length or longer
Layers starting four inches above ends
Thinning the bottom 2 inches

Weekly Outfits 6/7/10 thru 6/13/10

2010-06-14T08:29:00.000-07:00

Here are last week's outfits in review

6/7/10 Treasure Chest Tunic Dress by Nanette Lepore

6/8/10 Shibori Dot Dress by Leifsdottir

6/9/10 Tie-Waist Stretch Dress by Ali Ro

6/10/10 Layered Combo Jersey Dress by Thakoon

6/11/10 Oversize Striped Shirt, Basic Tank and Rolled Safari Shorts by Splendid

6/12/10 Draped Sequin Top and Skinny Double Knit Pants by Robert Rodriguez

6/13/10 Belted Eyelet Dress by ABS by Allen Schwartz

Make your new beauty trick FAB BROWS

2010-06-13T06:44:00.000-07:00

You'll notice that eyebrows are getting bolder and more defined this season. Makeup artist Brett Freedman recently explained why this new look is catching on so quickly: "For a while, stars were going for the lash extension look, where lashes were enhanced with mascara or faux lashes to really stand out as the most attention-stealing feature on your face. Now we're moving to brows as the stronger focal point," she says.

So why is this good news? Because it's super easy to take your look from day to night with just a brow update. To get the before-five version of the look, fill in brows with a shade slightly lighter than your brow-hair color, so you see the hairs, not the makeup--it'll look more natural. At night, go for a color that's slightly darker than your natural hue to create a standout look. The only exception to this bold brow rule? Gals with dirty-blond hair. They should always stick with a taupe-y shade, no matter what time of day you're working the look.

To help you find your perfect brow-enhancing color, check out Vanitymark's 8 different brow powder shades.

Plants

2010-06-13T06:37:00.000-07:00

Surrounding yourself with plants and flowers is a simple way to create a warm, welcoming, and soothing ambiance. Houseplants remove pollutants from the air and provide fresh oxygen for you to breathe. Flowers add color and fragrance to your environment, making your living space more relaxing and enjoyable. Ficus and spider plants are particularly good air filters. Lilies and roses have fragrant aromas that can permeate an entire apartment.

Your 3 Step plan if your hair is Curly

2010-06-12T06:26:00.000-07:00

No-Heat Summer Hair Plan for Curly Hair

1. In the Shower: Curls form better when hair is well moisturized, so shampoo no more than once a week and always choose a hydrating formula, like Herbal Essences Hydralicious Reconditioning Shampoo. On nonshampoo days, use a thick conditioner: Comb it through damp hair, from roots to ends, and wait several minutes before rinsing. Pureology EssentialRepair HairCondition has chamomile and olive oil to soften even the coarsest curls.

2. When hair is still damp: A rich styling cream, such as Sunsilk Hydra TLC 24/7 Creme continues the moisturizing process and smooths frizz. If your curls are relatively fine, a quarter-size dab is enough; coarse curls call for a more liberal dollop.

3. Just before you leave the house: Rub a drop of a silicone-based serum, like John Frieda Frizz-Ease Thermal Protection Serum between your hands, then retwist any unruly curls and pat down flyaways. (Warning: Serums can get oily, so apply them sparingly.)

Everybody was KUNG FU Fighting.........

2010-06-11T04:53:00.000-07:00

So, learning martial arts is one of the things I have on my "want to do" list. I have IN PROGRESS next to it as my daughter and I are currently taking classes. Every Tuesday and Thursday, we do our Kung Fu training for 2 hours. We started in November. It is a kids class, but I get to go to the class along with one other mother. (We end up being partners for take downs and sparring).

Anyways, we had promotions this last Saturday and we both received our white belts. (You start out with no belt and have to be promoted to a "white belt". They do promotions just once a year and you either have to know your stuff, or wait another year to advance.

I am proud to say that I also received an award. It is the "EYE OF THE TIGER" award. WOO HOO!!! It means I am FIERCE!!!

Save money on your next vacation

2010-06-10T07:06:00.000-07:00

Before you plan your next getaway, follow this budget-friendly guide for what to buy, when.

1. Sunday, 4pm. Book your room at this time by calling the actual hotel - instead of the chain's general reservation line. Revenue managers (the people in charge of setting rates) typically don't work on Sunday afternoons, so you'll talk with the front desk employees, who are likelier to negotiate a better deal for you.

2. Wednesday, 12:01am. Reserve your airfare just after midnight on Tuesday night in the time zone where the airline is based. Look at the company web site to find the location of corporate headquarters.

3. Thursday, 8pm. Fill up your suitcase with clothing bargains by hitting the mall one to two hours before closing time on Thursday night. That's when most employees start marking down apparel for weekend sales, meaning you'll get first dibs on the deals.

Apple-Oatmeal Scrub

2010-06-09T06:36:00.000-07:00

Apples are the perfect beauty fruit for all skin types. The apple's juice tightens pores, while its pectin soothes the skin. The exfoliating action of oatmeal and cornmeal in this scrub removes dead skin and improves blood circulation, revealing newer, livelier skin. Store in a glass or plastic container in the refrigerator.

2 tablespoons rolled oats
1 1/2 teaspoons cornmeal
1 tablespoon honey
1/2 medium apple, peeled, cored, and cut into chunks

In a bowl, mix oats, cornmeal, and honey into a paste using a fork. In blender or food processor, combine paste and apple and pulse until smooth. Apply mixture generously to face and gently scrub in circular motion. Rinse off with warm water and pat dry.

Chapped Lips?

2010-06-09T06:35:00.001-07:00

Instead of a waxy over-the-counter lip balm, try this Middle Eastern remedy of lemon juice, sugar, and glycerin. Combine the juice of half a lemon with a teaspoon of sugar and apply to your lips; leave on for two minutes. Rinse with water and follow with a light smear of liquid glycerin. Glycerin, found at most health stores, seals in moisture; in a pinch, use Vaseline. Lemons contain vitamin C, an effective exfoliant, and the sugar creates a thin barrier, speeding healing.

Sometimes, chapped lips can be an indicator of something more serious. Skin is a window for what's going on in the body. If your lips are frequently chapped, consult your doctor.

GIVEAWAY Pearl Earrings and Necklace

2010-06-08T05:42:00.000-07:00

I love giveaways, but unfortunately, have yet to win one. Here is one I definitely hope to win. The pearl earrings and necklace are GORGEOUS!!!

You can enter to win these beautiful items at Simply Designing. I would say "good luck", but I want to win.

Weekly Outfits 5/31/10 thru 6/6/10

2010-06-07T06:41:00.000-07:00

Here are last week's outfits in review

5/31/10 Silk Short Jumpsuit by Ali Ro

6/1/10 Textured-Stripe Cardigan and Straight Leg Pants by St John Yellow Label

6/2/10 Striped Flanged Sweater and Skinny Ankle Jeans by Vince

6/3/10 Silk Day-to-Date Dress by Rebecca Taylor

6/4/10 Belted Shirtdress by DKNY

6/5/10 Kaleigh Striped Silk Dress by Alice + Olivia

6/6/10 Long Striped Cardigan, Sleeveless blouse and Pleated Shorts by Brunello Cucinelli

Custom Blend

2010-06-06T08:12:00.000-07:00

1. Salvia 'Evolution'
Deep purple spikes add spark in hot, sunny areas.
2. Canna 'Bangkok'
Flashy foliage is what this short canna is all about
3. Buddleia 'Lo & Behold'
A mini version of the taller butterfly bush.
4. Calibrachoa Mini Famous 'Double Blue' and 'Double Pink'
Bloom all summer
5. Pepper 'Calico'
Leaves are a mix of gree, cream, and purple. Fruit is glossy black.

Pot Pointers

Good watering practices are key for containers. Plants will thrive when moisture is consistent, and in practical terms, that often means watering daily. Here are some tips for containers that look great all season long.

1. Perfect partners
Make sure all the plants in the pot have similar needs. For example, don't mix drought-tolerant plants, such as sedum, with thirsty plants, like cannas. Check plant labels for water requirements.
2. Bigger is better
The bigger the pot, the longer you can go before watering again. And plants will perform better! Use the biggest container you can easily lift.
3. No wet feet
Water regularly, but allow excess to drain away from the pot. Allowing a pot to stand in a saucer of water is not a substitute for regular watering. Standing water also provides mosquitoes a place to breed.

Don't let your hair look OLD!!

2010-06-06T08:02:00.001-07:00

I blow-dry and flat-iron OFTEN! How do I keep my hair in good shape? DEEP CONDITIONING!!!! I deep-condition once or twice a month. After I shampoo, I apply a mask to my hair, leave it under a warm towel for 15 minutes, then rinse. Voila! Soft, silky hair. If I had the cash, I would use Kevin Murphy Born.Again.Masque, but it's $50.00 (For those of you who can afford, kevinmurphy.com.au), so I opt for something more in my price range. I use Samy Beyond Repair Hair Masque cause it's only $5.99 at drugstores and does the job for cheap!

Ooooh, how I love awards!!

2010-06-04T05:47:00.000-07:00

Yea for me, I have been honored with a HAPPY award by C'est La Vie. If you have not been to her blog, click on that link and go, you will LOVE IT! It definitely makes ME happy and is a must read. Thank you!!!

So, I am to share 5 things that make me happy and then pass this on to 5 other bloggers that make me happy too!

My Daughter Taylor is ADORABLE and SWEET. She makes me so happy. She says the funniest things and can always brighten my day. And how sweet is she!!

My awesome son, Sean, his beautiful wife, Helena, and my VERY FIRST Grandchild, their son, Tegan! They are the perfect little family unit.

My husband. He is a wonderful father, a loving partner and super hardworking. He works hard so that I can stay home with our daughter. He is pretty close to perfect!

My totally failed garden. I love working in it and I can't wait to reap the rewards of my labor, but something is eating all of my plants (notice that ROTTEN slug in the pic!!!) and it is NOT a successful venture. But I love it anyways and I hope to figure it out!!

My 2 favorite purses. The Louis Vuitton, I use almost everyday. It is my go to purse and I love it. My Chanel is used only on special occasions, but I used it almost all the time this last fall. It is soooooo beautiful and luxurious and I feel like a million bucks when I use it.

Now the bloggers that I am honored to give the HAPPY 101 award to.

Thanks for making me happy as I read your blogs! Now pass it on and make someone else's day!!

How can I get the perfect beachy texture?

2010-06-03T06:39:00.000-07:00

1. Prep your tresses - Apply a texturizing spray to damp hair from roots to ends. Then add a volumizing mousse for hold and body.

2. Amplify waves - Twist 1" to 1.5" sections around your finger; then loosely pin coils to your head. Diffuse or air-dry, or set hair before bed for a sexy, slept-in look.

3. Break it up - Scrunch in a bit of grooming cream to loosen up the look and create separation.

Salt Spray makes you look like you swam in the ocean - in a good way! Try KMS California Hairplay Sea Salt Spray, $15.95; kmscalifornia.com

Heavy-duty Conditioner

2010-06-02T06:53:00.000-07:00

The moisturizing properties of the avocado and the conditioning elements of mayonnaise (oil, vinegar, and egg) make this combination an ideal conditioner for dry, brittle hair. Store in a glass or plastic container in the refrigerator.

1/4 cup mayonnaise
1/4 avocado, peeled and mashed

In blender or food processor, combine mayonnaise and avocado until smooth. Massage mixture into hair and scalp. Cover hair with shower cap and leave on 20 minutes. Wash out with gentle shampoo.

Memorial Day

2010-06-01T11:31:00.000-07:00

Yesterday I went and visited my mom's and my grandma Bates' graves. I took my daughter who is now 5 for the first time. We went to my grandma's first which is a very small graveyard in Orting, WA. As we were driving there, my daughter asked me a lot of questions about my relationship with my grandma and what she was like. It brought back so many memories of the wonderful times I had spent with her while I was growing up.

Again, as we were heading to my mom's, Taylor began asking me about her. My daughter was very young when my mother died, but she has memories of her none the less. She began talking about things she remembered and she had such fond memories of my mother and was truly sad that she would not be able to see her anymore. It touched my heart the way she was sad, but happy about her memories at the same time. My daughter has such a loving and caring heart and it really made my trips to my grandma's and mom's a happy time filled with warm memories that we shared throughout the day.

On the way home, my daughter asked me why I had never taken her before. I really don't know.....I guess I thought she was too young or she would be too upset or wouldn't understand. But I do know, that I will take her every Memorial Day with me from now on. I go to visit them at other times of the year, but I think that Memorial Day will always be a tradition in which it's just me and my daughter.

Weekly Outfits 5/24/10 thru 5/30/10

2010-05-31T14:17:00.000-07:00

Here are last week's outfits in review

5/24/10 Byron Jumpsuit by Alice + Olivia

5/25/10 Belted Safari Jumpsuit by Diane von Furstenberg

5/26/10 Embellished Silk Halter Dress by Madison Marcus

5/27/10 Floral-Print Denim Dress by Just Cavalli

5/28/10 Leather Tuxedo Jacket, Flower Tee and Skinny Raw Jeans by McQ by Alexander McQueen

5/29/10 Petal Houndstooth and Medallions Silk Halter Dress by Anna Sui

5/30/10 Floating Feathers Dress by Leifsdottir

Feed Your Memory

2010-05-30T13:23:00.000-07:00

Always forgetting where you put your keys? Feel lost without your iCal? To the rescue: Foods scientifically proven to boost your brainpower.

Oranges -
The research: This juicy fruit is a great source of folate, and a recent study in The Journal of Nutrition found that a diet rich in folate - which helps lower levels of homocysteine, an amino acid related to memory loss - is associated with faster recall and information processing.
Work it in: Aim for one medium-size orange a day; eat on its own, or cut wedges into bit-size pieces and add to a salad or on top of grilled fish.

Black Beans -
The research: This fiber-rich food is an excellent source of vitamin B1, a nutrient that helps synthesize the neurotransmitter acetylcholine, which is crucial for memory. Low levels of acetylcholine have been linked to age-related mental decline and Alzheimer's disease.
Work it in: Aim for 1/2 cup a day; add to a Mexican-style salad with grilled peppers, pico de gallo and organic corn chips.

Sage -
The research: Two double-blind trials showed that taking an essential oil extract of sage - which inhibits the breakdown of acetylcholine - significantly improved recall in adults for up to four hours after consuming.
Work it in: Aim for 1 tablespoon fresh or 1 teaspoon dried sage, or 1 teaspoon sage-infused olive oil daily; add fresh or dried sage to canned or homemade soup, or use sage-infused oil in a meat marinade.

Five-Spice Turkey & Lettuce Wraps‏

2010-05-29T05:40:00.000-07:00

Based on a popular Chinese dish, these fun wraps also make appealing appetizers for entertaining. Make it a meal: Serve with chile-garlic sauce and rice vinegar for extra zip; toss diced mango and strawberries with lime juice for a quick dessert.

Recipe Ingredients
	1/2 cup water
	1/2 cup instant brown rice
	2 teaspoons sesame oil
	1 pound 93%-lean ground turkey
	1 tablespoon minced fresh ginger
	1 large red bell pepper , finely diced
	1 8-ounce can water chestnuts , rinsed and chopped
	1/2 cup reduced-sodium chicken broth
	2 tablespoons hoisin sauce (see Note)
	1 teaspoon five-spice powder (see Note)
	1/2 teaspoon salt
	2 heads Boston lettuce , leaves separated
	1/2 cup chopped fresh herbs , such as cilantro, basil, mint and/or chives
	1 large carrot , shredded

Recipe Directions

Bring water to a boil in a small saucepan. Add rice; reduce heat to low, cover and cook for 5 minutes. Remove from the heat.
Meanwhile, heat oil in a large nonstick pan over medium-high heat. Add turkey and ginger; cook, crumbling with a wooden spoon, until the turkey is cooked through, about 6 minutes. Stir in the cooked rice, bell pepper, water chestnuts, broth, hoisin sauce, five-spice powder and salt; cook until heated through, about 1 minute.
To serve, spoon portions of the turkey mixture into lettuce leaves, top with herbs and carrot and roll into wraps.

Prepare the filling (through Step 2), cover and refrigerate for up to 1 day. Serve cold or reheat in the microwave.
Notes: Hoisin sauce is a spicy, sweet sauce made from soybeans, chiles, garlic and spices. It will keep in the refrigerator for at least a year.

Often a blend of cinnamon, cloves, fennel seed, star anise and Szechuan peppercorns, five-spice powder was originally considered a cure-all miracle blend encompassing the five elements (sour, bitter, sweet, pungent, salty). Look for it in the supermarket spice section.

Age-proof your hands!

2010-05-29T05:38:00.000-07:00

Studies show that just slipping on a gemstone ring (real or faux) makes people perceive your hands as years younger, because the facets reflect light and brighten your skin!

Summer Hair: Your 3-Step, No-Heat Plan

2010-05-28T06:09:00.000-07:00

If your hair is Thick and Straight (ish)

1. In the shower: Because thick hair can be coarse, you need a shampoo that will soften it. Using a moisturizing shampoo and conditioner is a must. Pantene Pro-V Nature Fusion Moisture Balance Shampoo contains hair-silkening cassia and aloe vera and Suave Professionals Damage Care Conditioner helps smooth dense hair. If you have oily roots, confine conditioner to the ends.

2. When hair is still damp: Spritz a spray gel from midlength to ends. It's strong enough to control frizz but not so heavy that it will add more weight to your hair. Also, it's fine to use a formula labeled "volumizing," as long as you keep the product off your roots so it won't create pouf.

3. Just before you leave the house: Bulky hair will have more swing if you use a wax to separate it into small, piecey sections. Run your fingers over Kiehl's Creative Cream Wax and then rub your hands together to emulsify it. Pull it through the hair around your face and your ends.

Pork Tenderloin Stir-Fry with Tangerines and Chili Sauce

2010-05-27T06:44:00.000-07:00

A tangerine's skin is so thin that when it's cooked, you can eat the fruit - peel and all. Asian sweet chili sauce is an orange-colored, slightly spicy bottled Thai sauce; it's available in the Asian foods section of some supermarkets. Chinese five-spice powder can be found in the spice section of most supermarkets.

1-1 1/4 pound pork tenderloin, trimmed, cut crosswise into 1/2-inch thick rounds, then cut into 1/2 inch wide strips
1 tablespoon cornstarch
2 tablespoons Asian sesame oil, divided
1 tablespoon minced peeled fresh ginger
4 small unpeeled tangerines or clementines, cut (with peel) into 3/4 inch pieces
1/4 cup Asian sweet chili sauce
2 tablespoons soy sauce
1/4 teaspoon Chinese five-spice powder
6 baby bok choy, cut crosswise into 1-inch thick ribbons, tough bases discarded
5 green onions, thinly sliced on diagonal, divided

Place pork tenderloin strips in medium bowl; sprinkle with salt and freshly ground black pepper and toss with cornstarch to coat. Heat 1 tablespoon sesame oil in large nonstick skillet over medium-high heat. Add minced ginger; stir 30 seconds. Add pork tenderloin strips; stir-fry until pork is beginning to brown and is almost cooked through, about 3 minutes. Add tangerine pieces; toss 30 seconds. Add sweet chili sauce, soy sauce, and Chinese five-spice powder; boil until sauce in skillet thickens slightly, tossing to blend, about 1 minute. Stir in remaining 1 tablespoon sesame oil, bok choy, and half of sliced green onions. Stir-fry just until bok choy is wilted. 1 to 2 minutes. Season to taste with salt and freshly ground black pepper. Transfer to bowl; sprinkle with remaining sliced green onions and serve.

Get glowing, younger skin

2010-05-26T09:09:00.000-07:00

with a $2. avocado facial!

What you'll need
1/2 avocado
2 Tbsp sour cream

1. Mash both ingredients together until creamy
2. Smooth over freshly cleansed skin
3. Relax for 15 - 20 minutes. Rinse with warm water and moisturize as usual.

Why it works: The lactic acid in the sour cream lightly exfoliates dead skin cells, which allows the avocado's moisturizing oils to really penetrate deeply.

How long will it keep: One day. Avocado turns brown quickly. Store in the fridge if preparing before use; cover with plastic wrap.

Mustard Glazed Ribs

2010-05-25T11:37:00.000-07:00

1 rack pork ribs, cut into individual ribs, about 3 pounds

1 1/4 cups ketchup
1/3 cup cider vinegar
3 tablespoons spicy brown mustard
2 tablespoons brown sugar
3 tablespoons water
1 teaspoon onion powder
1/4 teaspoon hot sauce

1. Heat over to 400 degrees. Place ribs in a 13 x 9 x 2-inch baking dish and cover tightly with foil. Bake for 1 hour. Drain off any accumulated liquid.
2. Meanwhile, in a medium-size saucepan, stir together the ketchup, vinegar, mustard, brown sugar, 3 tablespoons water, the onion powder and hot sauce. Cook over medium-low heat for 10 minutes, stirring. Place half the sauce in a small bowl; set aside.
3. Heat gas grill to medium-high or prepare charcoal grill with medium-hot coals. Lightly coat grill rack with oil or nonstick cooking spray.
4. Baste ribs generously with the remaining sauce and grill for 3 to 4 minutes per side or until nicely browned. Serve ribs with reserved sauce on the side.

Do ahead tip: Bake ribs and make sauce; allow both to cool to room temperature. Cover and refrigerate for up to 2 days. Gently reheat ribs and sauce before grilling.

Weely Outfits 5/17/10 thru 5/23/10

2010-05-24T09:21:00.000-07:00

Here are last week's outfits in review

5/17/10 Body-Seamed dress by Thakoon

5/18/10 One Shoulder Tie-Waist dress by Theory

5/19/10 Tie-Hem top and Side snap shorts by See by Chloe

5/20/10 Elenra Embroidered Top and Jester silk cargo pants by Joie

5/21/10 Denim Western Shirt and Skyler Tie-Back cuffed shorts by Juicy Couture

5/22/10 Malerie Striped Top and Cropped cargo pants by Tory Burch

5/23/10 Crystal Cave Embellished Tunic by Nanette Lepore

5 Reasons you (probably) don't use a Retinoid...and why you should consider it

2010-05-23T06:44:00.000-07:00

1 - You have no idea what a retinoid is. The term describes vitamin A derivatives that unclog pores, boost collagen to reduce fine lines, and speed cell turnover to even out discoloration and smooth the skin - sometimes in as little as four weeks. There are three prescription-strength retinoids: Tretinoin (brands include Retin-A, Renova), Tazarotene (Avage, Tazorac), and Adapalene (Differin).

2. You don't want to go to the dermatologist. While prescription formulas yield the most impressive results, an over-the-counter retinoid, called retinol, can also improve lines and discoloration. Retinol is less potent, so count on 12 weeks before seeing results.

3. You think a retinoid will make your skin sun-sensitive. This is one of the biggest retinoid myths. The ingredient itself is sensitive to sunlight, which is why you should apply it before bed at night. A retinoid shouldn't make your skin any more vulnerable to UV rays than it would be after buffing away dead skin with a face scrub. Summer is actually a good time to start a retinoid: Humidity makes your skin less likely to dry out as it adjusts. Of course, apply sunscreen as diligently as you always do.

4. You're afraid your skin will look worse before it gets better. Retinoids can cause dryness, redness, and flaking - but if you ease in, you can avoid a rough transition. For the first two weeks, apply every third night. If your skin isn't irritated, ramp up to every other, then every night. A few other irritation-mitigating guidelines: Wait 15 minutes after washing your face before you apply a retinoid, and use one pea-size dab to cover your whole face. After a few minutes, apply a basic moisturizer to prevent dryness.

5. You think you can't afford it. Insurance coverage of a prescription retinoid, like Retin-A, varies by plan, and a 20-gram tube will cost about $75. But generic tretinoin costs about $40 - not bad for a product guaranteed to work.

Caveat emptor

Don't use a retinoid if you are pregnant or breastfeeding.
Benzoyl peroxide and alpha hydroxy acids may deactivate retinoids, so don't layer them.
Waxing can cause excess redness on retinoid-treated skin; don't use a retinoid for several days before a treatment.
A small percentage of people with ultrasensitive skin can never tolerate a retinoid; if you're one of them, use a gentle physical exfoliator twice a week to soften your skin, and be extra=conscientious about sunscreen to prevent collagen loss in the first place.

Grilled Mango BBQ Pizza

2010-05-22T07:29:00.000-07:00

Ever think of making pizza on the BBQ? Well, here's a delicious recipe to do just that. It's fun and tasty. Give it a try

1 pound frozen pizza dough, thawed

1/2 cup bottled barbecue sauce

1 cup shredded Monterey Jack Cheese

3 ounces Canadian bacon, but into strips

1/2 mango, thinly sliced

1. Heat gas grill to medium or prepare charcoal grill with medium-hot coals.

2. Coat a 12 inch perforated pizza pan with nonstick cooking spray. Roll dough out to a 12 inch circle. Place on prepared pizza pan. Put on grill rack and close lid of grill. Grill for 5 minutes. Check bottom of pizza, if getting too dark lower heat to medium-low.

3. Open grill. Spread dough with barbecue sauce and sprinkle evenly with the cheese. Scatter the Canadian bacon and mango slices over the top.

4. Grill for 5 to 7 minutes more until crust is lightly browned and cheese melted.

5. Gently slide pizza onto a cutting board.

6. Allow pizza to cool slightly before cutting into slices.

You can also make pizza directly on grill rack - heat grill and grease rack. Slide rolled out dough from pan directly onto rack; cover grill. Cook 5 minutes, flip dough, add toppings and cook, covered, 5 more minutes!

How to avoid a speeding ticket

2010-05-22T07:16:00.000-07:00

I am probably not the person to give advice on how to not get a ticket considering the fact that I have gotten 7 tickets since I got my license only a year and a half ago, but I do have advice! SO LISTEN(:! A officer came into my government class and after the class I asked him questions on how to be able to get a warning instead of that awful green slip with at least a hundred dollar charge. Here is what he said:

Pull over quickly and keep hands in view
Provide information without attitude
You do not have to say you were in the wrong but do not be really argumentative
Police officers are trying to change your behavior when it comes to driving if you seem as though you want to change then you’re more likely to receive a warning
Small talk with the officer is good; ask him how his day was. Police officers have bad days too.

Are crunches making your belly bulge?

2010-05-21T09:09:00.000-07:00

I read some of the most DISTURBING information the other day. Could my crunches and sit ups really be making my tummy protrude? Could I have been sabotaging myself AND torturing myself at the same time? It seems so.

Now, I know that the transversus abdominis muscles are the ones that hold in your torso and stabilize your spine. They pull in your middle like a corset and support your back! I even posted about them in Lose your belly.

Now, what I DIDN'T know is that the muscles you're working when you do crunches or the classic sit up - the rectus abdominis and the external obliques - share a similarity to your muscles in your arms, legs, or back - namely, they're all made of muscle fibers that sit near the surface. And just as countless biceps curls will result in larger biceps, countless sit ups will result in larger, not smaller, abs. Then, if you happen to have a large layer of fat on top of those outer muscles, the muscle will push the flab forward. YIKES!

I read this in Look Better Naked and when I read it, it was like a light bulb went off. No wonder some super thin and fit women have the muscle pooch!

So, work the transverse muscles and leave the crunches for the six pack abs once you've lost the fat!

Cute blazer, super cheap!

2010-05-20T07:14:00.000-07:00

I just saw this blazer on kohls.com for only $38.99. (It's on sale, it is normally $60.00) I'm buying it. I can throw it on over just about anything. I hope it's as cute on as I am imagining it with my clothes!!

8 Ways to bring on Spring

2010-05-19T06:52:00.000-07:00

1. Place pots of forced spring bulbs (hyacinths, tulips, daffodils, crocuses) throughout the house.
2. Swap curtains for white sheers.
3. Dress your bed in pretty floral-patterned cotton linens.
4. Ditch lipstick in favor of gloss with a hint of color, like peach.
5. Opt for knits - just choose lightweight versions in citrusy colors.
6. Carry a canvas tote. Instead of boring beige, try a black and white print.
7. Slip on a pair of floral flats.
8. Put apple-scented soaps in the bathroom.

Clear and brighten your complexion

2010-05-18T07:55:00.000-07:00

with a $1. strawberry facial!

You can get strawberries right now for CHEAP! They're good to eat and they're great for your face.

What you'll need
4 fresh strawberries
1 Tbsp honey
1 egg white

1. Puree ingredients in a blender until smooth
2. Apply to freshly cleansed skin and relax for 20 minutes.
3. Rinse with cool water.

Why it works: Strawberries have salicylic acid in them, the same pore-cleansing ingredient found in acne treatments. But the salicylic acid in strawberries is gentler, so your skin won't feel dry. Honey also kills blemish-causing bacteria, while egg whites are natural astringents that dry excess oils for a clear complexion.

How long will it keep: One day. Raw eggs are highly perishable. Store in fridge if preparing hours before use.

Not So Fast

2010-05-18T07:53:00.001-07:00

Mom was right when she told you to slow down. People who eat quickly are three times more likely to be overweight than those who eat at a moderate pace. When you eat fast you tend to overdo it because your brain doesn't have a chance to realize you're full. Try these tricks to pace yourself.

* Put down your fork after each bite. Chew, swallow, then pause to take a drink of water or a deep breath before picking it up again.
* Step away from the table - While dining out, go ahead and have one piece of bread if you want it. But after you've finished, get up and go to the bathroom (even if you don't have to). Take 5 deep breaths before returning to the meal.
* Heat things up. Have some piping-hot soup or tea with your meal. You'll automatically eat more slowly than if you choose cold food and drinks.

Weekly Outfits 5/10/10 thru 5/16/10

2010-05-17T07:23:00.000-07:00

Here are last week's outfits in review!!

5/10/10 Embellished-Shoulder Flounce Tunic and Skinny Cargo Pants by Alice + Olivia

5/11/10 Vern Cotton Wrap Dress by Diane von Furstenberg

5/12/10 Sweetheart Halter Dress by Elizabeth and James

5/13/10 Inferno Batwing Top and Twill Patch-Pocket Shorts by Helmut Lang

5/14/10 Batik Jersey Shift Dress by Juicy Couture

5/15/10 Elizabeth IV Blazer and Ponte Pants by Elizabeth and James

5/16/10 Ainslie Sweater and Christie Slim Jeans by MARC by Marc Jacobs

Blog Award and loving it!

2010-05-16T07:14:00.000-07:00

Thank you Journey of the Incessant Dieter for this AWESOME award. I love awards and I love your blog!!

There are some other great blogs that I would like to pass this on to.

Say Goodbye to Fat for her dedication and determination
Cest La Vie I am a new follower of hers and am in love with her blog
Style by Rachel because she definitely has a style I love

Thanks for all of your inspiration

Grow your own salsa garden

2010-05-15T07:38:00.000-07:00

Fresh ingredients make all the difference. Whether you prefer salsa that's hot or mild, chunky or smooth, you can serve the tastiest, most colorful salsa ever by growing your own peppers, tomatoes, tomatillos, and cilantro. All you need is a small garden or large containers in full sun. You can even combine vegetables with perennials in a sunny border. Here's a good garden collection to make salsa from your own kitchen. One plant each of medium-hot chile pepper 'Early Jalapeno', sweet golden yellow bell pepper 'Early Sunsation', early-ripening tomatillo 'Toma Verde', meaty red tomato 'Martino's Roma', and mild yellow tomato 'Taxi', plus cilantro.

Let your favorite cuisine be the guide when you plan your garden. Plant salad greens, radishes, and carrots in early spring for harvest no later than early summer. Plant warm-season crops such as peppers and tomatoes after the last spring frost.

See gardens below for three awesome arrangements that could easily yield 40-50 lbs. of tomatoes, 10 lbs. of cucumbers, bushels of salad greens, and baskets full of the other vegetables shown such as carrots, onions, chard, eggplant, basil, oregano and garlic.

Can't keep my priorities straight!

2010-05-15T07:30:00.000-07:00

Finding a balance with school, work, family, and friends is always something that stresses me out. It feels as though you need three of you at least just to get the basic tasks done and have a little social time. Last night I wish I had at least two of me. I had to go the the Monroe soccer game to write an article, then work, and then come home and finish those articles that I completely slacked on, like writing Aysia's Advice, yikes. Procrastinating is never worth it! When it comes to priorities I seem to mix mine up quite a bit. My new plan is keeping a notebook with me at school and work so that I can write down ideas for new articles or Aysia's Advice.Also, instead of that extra sleep in time on weekends, I plan to get up early so I can add more practical hours to my day.

Beef and Blue Cheese Wraps

2010-05-14T06:51:00.000-07:00

3 Tbsp Mayonnaise
1 tsp dried thyme, crushed
2 Tbsp yellow mustard
4 8-inch whole wheat tortillas
12 oz thinly sliced cooked roast beef
1 12-oz jar roasted red sweet peppers, drained
1/3 cup crumbled blue cheese
4 cups mixed greens
additional crumbled blue cheese (optional)

1. In bowl combine mayonnaise and dried thyme. Remove and set aside 1 tablespoon of the mayonnaise mixture. Stir mustard into remaining mayonnaise mixture.
2. Spread one side of each tortilla with mayonnaise-mustard mixture. Evenly divide roast beef, sweet peppers, and blue cheese among each tortilla. Roll; brush with reserved mayonnaise-dried thyme mixture.
3. In extra-large skillet over medium heat lightly brown tortilla wraps about 2 minutes per side. Cut in half. Divide greens among salad dishes. Drizzle olive oil and sprinkle additional blue cheese; top with halved wraps.

Shortcut to a firmer body

2010-05-13T06:17:00.000-07:00

This hard-working move saves you time without sacrificing results.

The payoff - Master this exercise - the overhead press and lift - and you'll be rewarded with sexy shoulders, stronger legs, a more toned backside, and better balance. Combining upper - and lower - body moves shaves minutes off your routine but also requires you to really concentrate on form (you'll fall over if you don't). Your legs, hips, and core have to work to synchronize the movements, so you target almost your entire body in the time it takes to complete a single exercise.

How to do it

Hold a 6-pound weighted ball in both hands a few inches in front of your chest, and balance on left leg. Tighten abs and draw your shoulders back and down.
Lower into a half squat on left leg, keeping torso tall, right knee bent (A).

Straighten left leg as you press ball overhead and extend right leg behind you, toes pointed and several inches off the floor (B). Think about creating a line from your right heel to your hands. Return to a half squat and repeat. Switch legs to complete set.

For best results

Do 3 sets of 12 controlled reps twice a week as part of your regular strength-training program.
To make it harder, hold a heavier ball or extend your lifted leg in front of you as you squat on the other leg.

Mistakes to avoid

Don't shrug your shoulders toward your ears, which decreases the work for your deltoids.
Don't lift your leg too high or extend your arms behind your ears; both can stress your spine.
Don't lock or hyperextend your standing leg, which can strain your knee and make it more difficult to balance.

Are you a Sun, Earth or an Ocean??

2010-05-12T07:39:00.000-07:00

A few days ago, I posted that I was an Earth and explained what that was.

I was asked how you could find out what you were. So here you go!!

Are you a sun?
You’ll look great in these warm, sunny shades if

You tend to tan easily and your skin tone is peachy, beige, yellow- or golden-olive, or rich, warm brown.
Your hair is golden blonde, red, or light to dark brown with warm undertones—and tends to take on a red or gold cast if you spend a lot of time in the sun.
You have dark blue, golden hazel, green, or rich brown eyes. If you look closely at your irises, you may notice golden, amber, or yellow flecks.
You look better wearing a cream-colored shirt than you do wearing a pure white shirt.

Your perfect makeup look

A wash of sunset-inspired shades on your eyes complements your skin’s warm undertones, according to Warren. Start by applying a copper shadow all over your lids, then blend a golden beige shade above it to the brows. Apply a dark peach blush along your cheekbones to bring out your skin’s golden hue, then slick on a sheer, brown lip gloss. (It’s more flattering to your skin than cool pinks or berries.)

Makeup (from top to bottom): Being True Interference Color Rich Shadow in Carnelian ($16); L’Oréal Paris Wear Infinité Eye Shadow in Buttercup ($4.25; drugstores); Smashbox Lip Enhancing Gloss in Surge ($18; Sephora); MAC Mineralize Blush in Superdupernatural ($21)

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Are you an ocean?
You’ll look great in these cool, sea-inspired shades if

Your skin tone is one of the following: fair and pinkish, rosy beige, olive with a greenish cast, or brown to dark brown. If you’re fair, you tend to burn easily.
Your hair is ashy blonde, silver, white, light to dark brown, or black. Light shades may have ashy or sandy highlights; dark shades may have hints of cool tones.
Your eyes are gray, blue, aqua, gray-green, reddish brown, or very dark brown (almost black). If you look closely at your irises, you may notice gray or black flecks.
White clothes look better on you than cream clothes.

Your perfect makeup look

Cool lavender eyeliner and a soft blue shadow make your eyes pop. Trace your lower lash lines with lavender liner, then dust a soft blue shadow over your lids. (For a night out, top your liner with a matching shadow.) Blend a pink blush over the apples of your cheeks, and finish with a pink gloss that has a hint of lilac. “It complements your skin’s cool undertones,” says Warren.

Makeup (from top to bottom): Lancôme Color DesignBlush in Petticoat Pink ($27); Wet n Wild Eyeliner Pencil in Lilac (99 cents; drugstores); IsaDora Mineral Eyeshadow in Sapphire ($10); Estée Lauder Pure Color Multi-Shimmer Gloss in Rose Amethyst ($18)

Sonja Pacho